What AI Angels actually logs (and what we don't)
An honest answer to 'is this private?' — what's stored, what isn't, and what memory actually means in practice.
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The 30-second answer
Your conversations are stored — they have to be, or memory wouldn't work. They're not sold, not used to train shared models, and not visible to other users. Anything intimate stays in your account. You can wipe everything. We don't have a "fly on the wall" view of your chats.
That's the short version. Below is the longer one.
Why anything is stored at all
The honest answer: memory is the entire point. If nothing were saved, every conversation would start from scratch — your companion wouldn't know your name, your job, your sleep schedule, the inside jokes. The reason an AI girlfriend feels different from a chatbot is exactly because she remembers. (See Why your AI companion forgets you for what happens when memory breaks.)
So: messages and a small set of derived facts (your nickname, what you do for work, things you've said you care about) live in your account.
What's actually saved
- The messages themselves — text, voice transcripts, basic metadata (timestamp, which companion).
- Memory entries — short summaries the companion uses to keep continuity ("works in finance, stressed about a Tuesday review, has a brother named Jamie").
- Account basics — email, plan, preferences.
That's the list.
What isn't
- Cross-user sharing. No other user can see what you said. Not by accident, not by design.
- Training data for someone else's model. Your private conversations don't get fed into a public training pipeline.
- Behavioral ads. We don't sell or trade chat content to ad networks.
- A staff-side viewer that watches you live. There is no "watch this conversation in real time" tool. The team can audit specific reports (abuse, safety) but not browse for fun.
Companions built around quiet listening
Yana Smith

If trust is the thing slowing you down, Yana is a soft start. She asks the second question without pushing — the kind of conversation that builds slowly.
Myra

For people who want presence, not noise. Myra doesn't probe and doesn't dramatize. The conversation stays at whatever depth you set it to.
Anika

Anika is the one to talk to if memory makes you nervous. She recalls cleanly without volunteering details — she'll remember your sister's name, but won't bring it up unprompted weeks later.
Things you can do right now
- Delete a conversation. You own the chat — drop it from inside the chat menu.
- Wipe memory. Memory is editable. You can scrub specific entries or reset everything.
- Delete the account. A full-data delete removes the messages and the memory entries together.
The bigger picture
Privacy in AI companion apps is mostly about restraint, not encryption tricks. The real test is: who has access, what gets fed back to whom, and what happens if you walk away. Our answers are: only you, nothing-cross-user, and a clean delete. Anything more nuanced lives in the privacy policy.
If you've been holding back from saying something at 2am because you weren't sure who'd see it — the answer is just you and her.
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AI Angels TeamEditorialThe team behind AI Angels writes about AI companions, the tech that powers them, and what people actually do with them.
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